Why Listen to dave?

About dave:  From the tag line underneath my site's name you can see I write reviews on books, businesses and folks.  You can also see that I am neither a celebrity, leader or expert.  Why then should you read my stuff and take action on my recommendations?

I like to think that I have an eye and ear for people who are sincere, authentic and want to succeed. I am attracted to people or things who travel in the opposite direction of status-quo.  In a world of change, status-quo was yesterday.  And in a world of change, status-quo is a greased rope that survivors do not trust.  The opposite?  Those are people who are constantly learning and evolving.  They walk about in the world eyes wide open.  They observe, they listen, they synthesize and then they produce (or try to with all of their might), stuff that makes the world a better place.

As a dad, husband and Baby Boomer, I care very deeply about this:  I passionately want the younger generations to succeed and the older generation to be valued!  To know and understand me then, is to know the lens in which I view the world. 

Made to Stick

Made to Stick by Chip & Dan Heath

Do you write a blog?*  Do you want more readers?  Do you want your message to be understood?  Do you want folks to tell others about your site?  Of course you do.  I think I know someone who can help.  Her name is Gabrielle.  Her friends call her Gabby.  Gabby's melting point, her flash point, the point where time stops, is in the study of how ideas spread.  What makes people remember other people?  What makes people want to tell others about those people?  The flint that caused her flame was The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell.  Oddly, Gabby's fascination with idea-spreading was for years, a universe away from her day job as a professional recruiter and night time passion of her career advice blog.  That is until the time that she bought a case of Heath Bars and stepped in the largest glob of bubble gum ever.  Lets see what Gabby found out.

One evening as Gabby sat staring at her computer sipping a glass of Merlot and chewing on thirty pieces of Bazooka bubble gum while trying to forget about her recent break up with Glen, her mind drifted to her blog.  How can I get more readers, she wondered.  In one swoop of total randomness she entered "tipping point stickiness" into Google.  Then she scrolled to the thirtieth set of pages and saw Dan Heath's name.  Craving a Heath Bar at that very moment, she clicked on Dan's name.  A couple of clicks later and she was on the Made to Stick site.  A couple of days later Made to Stick arrived in the mail from Amazon.

In the introduction to Made to Stick, the Heath Bros give credit to Malcolm Gladwell for the inspiration behind their book.  That was was all Gabby needed to know.  She tore into the book.  Before even finishing the introduction, Gabby discovered a major flaw in her blog.  The lads call it the Curse of Knowledge.  She thought of it as speaking Latin to a Chinese audience.  She wrote for career guidance professionals while her audience consisted of those looking to change careers.

Gabby finished the book in two days.  She discovered that the Bros wrote the book around six principles to help people spread successful ideas.  Reading the book a second time, Gabby sipped at these simple principles while thinking of her own writing. 

The first was Simple.  The Bros said to find the core idea and to express it in the form of a compact idea.  Gabby thought, "what was the core idea behind her blog?"  And how could she convey this in a short, simplistic and powerful way?  The Bros spoke of proverbs, metaphors and analogies to help this process.

The second was Unexpected.  How does she get a reader's attention?  The Bros said to break a pattern.  They go on to tell a story about a journalism class and how its teacher rocks their world with one simple exercise.  This story was Gabby's most favorite part of the book.  She would never forget it. 

The third was Concrete.  This one hit home.  If you know your readers, you'll converse at their level.  The Bros said, "we forget that other people don't know what we know."  Gabby thought, I need to know who is reading my blog and then talk with them on their level.

The fourth was Credible.  Gabby wondered, is my stuff credible enough to draw readers?  The Bros talk about finding credibility through friends, relatives, authorities and anti-authorities.  They also said it comes by way of stories, vivid details and statistics.  Credibility was a difficult principle for Gabby to envision.  The best she could take away here was to tell stories and fill them with vivid details. 

The fifth was Emotional.  The Bros said to make people care about our messages.  One way was to form an association between something folks care about and something they don't.  Another was to appeal to people's self-interest and identities.  Gabby knew that in order to reach people who were looking for career advice, she would have to form associations between their existing dilemmas and then a potential improved future.

The sixth was Stories.  Gabby's knees went weak.  She loved to tell stories.  This would be the first change to make on her blog.  She could tap into the wisdom of those who had walked the pathways of career change and by telling those stories, offer hope and inspiration to others.

Gabby read the book a third time.  She was so excited!  She was going to mold and bake the Heath Bros' six principles right into her blog.  Maybe one day her stuff would be so good that people would remember her and talk about her blog.  Maybe one day then, she'd be as popular as Penelope Trunk.

*I have a personal distaste for the word blog.  Ok, I hate it.  But this story isn't about me.  It's about you and the opportunity that you might have after reading the Heath Bros' book, to improve your, errrr, blog :-)

dave smoked-n-signed this book.

Troy Worman: Outstanding Bloggers List

Troy Worman has created a true Internet treasure with his Outstanding Bloggers List.  Enjoy.

A = AWESOME

B = Beautiful

Biz -something

Brain-something


C

D

E is for “E”

F

G

H

I = Ideas. No one is going to like all of your ideas. It’s best to stop caring about that now.

J

Life-something

El-something

L

  • LogoBlog For the articles. And the logo maker.

M

N

O

P

Q

R

Outstanding Bloggers by Name

The microfamous

Who Are You?

If I visit your Web site (I don't like the word blog) I gotta know about you.  I guess in some psychological way it helps me to frame and digest your content.  Most Web site authors do have an about page, a bio or a link to some personal information.  Some however, do not.

Jesica recently commented here, suggesting that I visit another book review site.  The first thing I do is to lay the mouse cursor over her name to see what the name of her site is.  Don't know about you, but I find it rare that those who comment do not have a site.  The name of Jesica's site is the same site that she suggests that I visit.  Is Jesica a spammer?  I don't think so.  I think she is someone who has built a site and is trying to drum up some traffic.  She is also like the person who is a magazine editor's worst nightmare.  You know the person.  He writes an article on landscaping and submits it to PC Magazine.

So I cruise over to Jesica's site,  Best Books Reviewed.  Not only can I not find out anything about Jesica, I can't find anything about anyone there.  Jesica, you need to write an about page and you need to spend time visiting other sites to gain a feel for how to communicate.  Good luck.

Who Are You??

Who are you?
Who, who, who, who?
Who are you?

Quick, what comes to your mind?  Roger Daltrey and the lads or William, Marg, Jorja and CSI?

Who are you and what characteristics do you want associated with Brand You?

Just came back from Escape from Cubicle NationPamela Slim writes a most insightful article titled, Are you in the mom or (dad) Closet?  Pamela leads with:

Nataly Kogan, a former venture capitalist who very recently flew the corporate coop (yeah Nataly!) to co-found a company called Work-it Mom, recently wrote a blog post calling for perspectives on what she calls the "coming out of the mom closet." It was spurred by a conversation with a potential contributing writer to her site who said:

“I really like what you’re doing but I try to not be associated with mommy sites. I don’t want to be pigeonholed as a mommy blogger.”

Egads!   Someone called me a mommy blogger! Being called a mommy blogger could be a banner for some and a cement block for others.

Pamela goes on to list a few guidelines for authors to follow in regards to the mommy blogger label.  While writing a comment to Pamela I wondered, are authors aware of how their actions are perceived?  For those of us who are conscious about such stuff, our intent is to write in such a way as to create a perception.  Some don't think about it and it all comes out as intended.  Still others could care less and probably end up not reaching desired results.

I have been writing online since the mid-nineties.  I have always been acutely aware of how I wanted to be perceived.  I have a list of desired dave-brand traits.  I wonder how your perceptions match up to my intentions????  Feel free to comment on these.  Matter of fact, I think this could be a fun meme to pass around.

Who are you?  Who, who, who, who,  Who are you?

It's all about your audience man!  Who did you think you were writing to?  Boomers or the Connected Generation?

btw, every time that I walk away from Pamela's Escape from Cubicle Nation, I walk away refreshed and energized...I think its got something to do with the name of her site :-)

Citizen Marketers

Citizen Marketers by Ben McConnell & Jackie Huba

You know what makes me mad as hell?